California Governor Gavin Newsom’s most significant scandal isn’t hidden at all—it’s a well-documented extramarital affair with a subordinate that he publicly admitted, apologized for, and somehow survived politically.
The Affair That Rocked San Francisco Politics
In January 2007, Gavin Newsom’s political world exploded when news broke of his extramarital affair with Ruby Rippey-Tourk, his appointments secretary. The scandal wasn’t just about infidelity—Rippey-Tourk was married to Alex Tourk, Newsom’s own campaign manager, creating a web of betrayal that would have destroyed most political careers. Yet Newsom’s response defied conventional political wisdom.
Rather than deny or deflect, Newsom immediately acknowledged the affair and issued public apologies. This direct approach, while painful, may have saved his political future. The affair occurred in 2005 while Newsom was married to Kimberly Guilfoyle, now a Fox News personality, and Rippey-Tourk served in his administration.
Gavin Newsom was caught sleeping with his campaign manager's wife.
Gavin's wife was caught having a sexual relationship with Harvey Weinstein.
The Newsoms are hella nasty. pic.twitter.com/euORyWr9DF
— HustleBitch (@HustleBitch_) November 25, 2024
Power Dynamics and Workplace Ethics Under Scrutiny
The relationship raised serious questions about power dynamics between a mayor and his subordinate. Critics argued the affair exemplified abuse of authority, particularly given Rippey-Tourk’s position as appointments secretary—a role that required access and trust. Alex Tourk’s resignation immediately followed the revelation, creating additional turmoil in Newsom’s administration.
However, Rippey-Tourk herself has pushed back against simplistic narratives. When the #MeToo movement later reframed discussions about workplace relationships, she stated publicly: “Yes, I was a subordinate, but I was also a free-thinking, 33-year-old adult married woman and mother. I am doubtful that it applies.” Her perspective complicates attempts to categorize the affair within broader movements about workplace misconduct.
🚨 BOMBSHELL!
In my search of @GavinNewsom's history, I just found the ONE THING he doesn't want to be shared!
Gavin CHEATED on his wife with his campaign manager. He HATES this being brought up! He broke the man code!
It would be a shame if this went viral. pic.twitter.com/BfSCrVQw6O
— Gunther Eagleman™ (@GuntherEagleman) August 29, 2025
Newsom’s career trajectory from scandal-plagued mayor to two-term governor suggests that transparent handling of controversy can sometimes strengthen rather than weaken political standing.+
Sources:
The List – Gavin Newsom’s Most Controversial Moments
LA Times – Gavin Newsom Affair Coverage
Politico – Gavin Newsom California Scandal Coverage